Dating and job hunting – success in both relies on the same concepts
Whether you are looking for a life partner or a new professional path, there are rules that apply in both areas that make you more likely to achieve your goal
You may not think it, but there are a lot of similarities between looking for a job and looking for a significant other. Sure, there are differences – probably best not to end an interview with a hug, for example, and definitely don’t go in for a kiss – but the similarities are worth noting.
If you want advice on howto score a second date or interview, here are five top tips.
1 First impressions are everything
Whether we like it or not, we only have one chance to make a first impression, and there’s no taking it back. Yes, a company and potential mate should love you for who you are; however, when people first meet you, they don’t yet know the real you; they only know the you sitting in front of them, or preferably next to them (it makes having an intimate conversation easier).
Put simply: dress to impress for the situation. Going for a clean and put-together look can send a great first impression. This actually allows for the other person to concentrate on what you are saying and not on what you are wearing.
A few additional pointers to keep in mind:
- DO wear something that makes you feel confident and attractive.
- DON’T wear something you took out of your hamper.
- DO dress in a style that’s “you”.
- DON’T second-guess your fashion choice once you’re on the date or interview. Own it.
- DO have a few go-to outfits ready so you never have to stress out about it.
- DON’T forget that your clothes will never outweigh hygiene.
